Safety

We’re glad you’re here — and we want you to stay safe while you’re here. Here’s how.

Keep Your Messages Protected

Our system detects scammers automatically. Stay on-site so those protections continue to work.

Video calls help you connect, yet deepfakes can fake live feeds. Stay alert for odd lighting, lag, or unnatural expressions.

Once sent, intimate photos can resurface anytime. Sextortionists depend on that.

For first meetings, stick to public areas with plenty of people around — avoid private homes or cars.

Let a trusted person know your date’s name, location, and your expected check-in time.

It’s your best safety tool — keep it powered and close at hand.

Arrange your own route there and back — don’t share lifts.

Keep alcohol low so you can recognise and respond to red flags.

Don’t visit your date’s home after your first meeting.

Relax, be authentic, and enjoy connecting with others.